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Onesimus
“I appeal to you for my son Onesimus, who became my son while I was in chains. Formerly he was useless to you, but now he has become useful both to you and to me.”Philemon 1:10-11
Biography
Onesimus was a slave belonging to Philemon, a wealthy Christian in Colossae and a close friend of Paul. Onesimus had run away — and possibly stolen money in the process — but somehow ended up in Rome, where he encountered Paul in prison and became a Christian. Paul formed a deep bond with him and called him 'my son' and 'my very heart.' The letter to Philemon is Paul's personal appeal to receive Onesimus back — not as a slave, but as a beloved brother. It is one of the most intimate letters in the New Testament, Paul writing as a friend asking a favor, refusing to command but asking in love. The Onesimus mentioned by Ignatius of Antioch as bishop of Ephesus is traditionally identified with this same man.
Spiritual Lesson
Onesimus's story is the gospel in miniature: a person who ran, who owed a debt he could not repay, who was found in his extremity and given new identity — and then sent back not to be punished but to be welcomed as a brother. The one who had been useless became useful. The runaway became the returning son. Paul's letter to Philemon asks of its recipient the same thing the gospel asks of all of us: to receive back the one who wronged us, not as they deserve, but as we ourselves have been received by God.